The Lost Nydia Visit

The following reflection was written in 2003, when I was between 25 and 26 years old.


My journal indicates that Nydia visited me at Bradford the week after we first met up at Berklee. I have no recollection of this whatsoever. I thought there might have been another visit in between our first meeting and the fateful meeting we would have at the end of January 1997, but I couldn’t recall any details about it. The journal verified my suspicions though and now I feel obligated to say something about it here.

According to my journal, Nydia and I went “even further” this visit than we had the first visit. It’s kind of hard for me to buy that because I thought we went just about as far as you could go that first visit without going all the way. Perhaps it was just a bit of my flowery writing. I needed to make the sentence better for some reason and I just added the “even further” to make it flow.

We did sexual things. Let’s just leave it at that.

I don’t recall Rachael or Russel being there. I don’t think they met her in person till the January visit. I don’t know where they would have been though, so maybe its just my faulty memory kicking my ass again.